It's not that some people have willpower and some don't. It's that some people are ready to change and others are not.
The 8-Week Transition Diet
As I have stated in many mervmails; I don’t believe in diets; they are made to fail! With diets your mind is set on depriving yourself from foods, which is a trap to fail. Your focus should be on a life-style modification. It’s a long time goal and focused on foods you are allowed to eat. This mindset is a positive one and therefore it’s a “recipe” to succeed in your goals! Don’t focus on weight loss; instead focus on loosing body fat. Furthermore, there is never a perfect time to start….there are always excuses why to delay. Be pro-active and decide to make a change and start today!
I've found over the years that a transitional eating plan is one of the easiest ways to change your eating habits for the better. Initially, don’t worry about calories, but instead focus on behavior modification!
It's often said that no nutritional plan works for every individual. While this is true, you may have noticed that all plans target a similar goal: eating more natural whole foods and less junk. That's because there are no secrets to healthy eating. There are strategies that can lead to various performance benefits, but 99 percent of diet is cutting junk and eating real food.
This 8-week transition plan is for those of you who are less detail oriented. Conceptually-based diets like this can be easier to follow, because they focus on providing you with a short list of "no-nos," leaving you with a fairly wide array of foods that you
are allowed to eat. Of course, that isn't the attitude you want to have for long-term success. Any diet, no matter how easy it seems, will take some willpower on your part if you want to see results. Your long-range goal should be to eat well, period. If you can accomplish this, your physical transformation will become a natural extension of your lifestyle, instead of something you need to pursue.
As healthy eating becomes a habit, you will find the other intangibles (such as weight loss, increased energy, etc.) falling into place. For many people, the easiest way to accomplish the healthy eating habit is to make a gradual transition from food choices that hinder human performance to ones that help you perform better. By making this transition gradually, you'll find that it isn't as difficult as you expected.
Week 1
No junk. Eliminate junk food from your diet. That's it, just junk. Other than this, you can eat whatever and whenever you like. Now, how hard can that be? Guess this depends on what I mean by "junk." But all I'm concerned with this week is the obvious stuff like potato chips, candy, ice cream, cake, etc. You may be stricter if you'd like, but for Week 1, don't be too hard on yourself. For many of you, this step alone will reap huge benefits.
Cheat Days: 2
Since no one's perfect, you get 2 days to cheat. That's right, 2 days where you can eat anything you want! A trick on these days (and, yes, this means there will be more) is to listen to your body. At first, it'll probably tell you it wants whatever you've been denying it. However, over time, it'll start to crave nutrients you're deficient in. Learn to read your body's subtleties. If you're craving ice cream, you may be short on essential fatty acids. If you crave a hamburger, your diet may lack protein. This way, you can make better food substitutions. It's a way of getting in tune with yourself that will benefit you for your entire lifetime.
Weekly focus: Water. Not swimming in it, though that's good too, but staying hydrated with it. You should drink at least 6 to 8 glasses of water per day. Diet sodas and such are no substitute, because they contain a passel of ingredients that live right at the bottom of the junk heap. Drinking a glass of water when you feel hunger pangs coming on will not only keep you hydrated, but will help stave off your hunger to some degree.
As for other drinks, juices and sugary sodas also (obviously) fall into the junk category. And alcohol should be kept to a minimum. We tend to forget (purposely or not) that alcohol has calories. A lot of them: 7 calories per gram. Mixers can be even worse—not only can they add calories, but sugary calories influence the way alcohol reacts with your body. When you do drink, red wine is the alcohol of choice, with natural beer running second.
If you don't see yourself as a winner, then you cannot perform as a winner.
Zig Ziglar